Saturday, March 22, 2008

Scrolling Saturday - That means you are special

Yep! It is Saturday again.

Gather up your favorite archived post, dust it off and repost it!! It's that easy! Click HERE to view other Scrolling Saturday entries.

Thank you to the hostesses of this meme, Manners and Moxie and SuchSimplePleasures.

With the hustle and and bustle of life, I sometimes forget that I am special. I think this is a common occurrence for many busy moms. Happily, my son DJ reminded me that I, his mommy, am special. I hope you enjoy this post that I first posted on Friday August 17, 2007.

That means you are special - Part 1 and 2

I have 2 separate stories I would like to share with my "faithful" readers - well, with my wonderful husband and my mom - since I am pretty sure they are the only people reviewing my posts.

When DJ (my eldest son) was just 10 days old he had emergency surgery that saved his life. It is certainly amazing what the medical field can do...and we are eternally thankful. He was left with a faint, long, narrow scar on his belly. When he was just over 2 years old he questioned his scar. Thinking on my feet, I replied that it is a line that says "you are special" and that Dr. Reuben put it there when he saw "how special you are".

Now when anyone comments on DJ's scar or on his little medic alert bracelet, he replies that both mean he is special ---- which he truly is.

Part one of my story begins with the bewitching hour, when Mommy makes dinner and the kids destroy the house. Well, as I made dinner, I could hear the boys chatting in the front room:

Anderson: What's that??

DJ: That's my special line that Dr. Ruby gave me when he made me better. It means that I am special.

Anderson: OH.

DJ: I do not see one on you...MOMMY, why doesn't Sanson have a special line too??

Mommy from the kitchen: Anderson did not have tummy troubles, so he does not have a line, but we all know he is very special - aren't you Sweetheart?

Anderson: (proudly) Me special too.

That was the end of the conversation...or so, I thought.

At bath time I helped DJ take off his clothes and climb into the tub...and when I pulled off Anderson's shirt my mouth dropped. There in thick, permanent marker was scribbles and lines masterfully done by no one but a 2 year old.

DJ proudly confessed by saying " Mommy, Sanson is very special too, so, I made sure he knows it!"

How could I be mad? My heart swelled. Big brother DJ making sure little brother Anderson (and everyone else) knew he was special too.

I will always cherish that moment, and remember it forever.

Part Two

Jump ahead almost a year. Part two begins on a hot summer afternoon. Mommy and DJ are putting on our bathing suits to take a dip in our pool. Very innocently, DJ comes over to my side and rubs my belly. I feel a little bit self conscience - you see, I am currently struggling with my weight and ask him what he is doing. Three pregnancies in three years has reeked havoc on my body, leaving lots of extra pounds, stretch marks and sadly, a low self-esteem.

With big blue eyes, and a very innocent and loving heart he asks, "Mommy, what's that?"

I realize that he is either pointing at my stretch marks or to the indentation the waist band of my pre-pregnancy pants have left on my plump tummy.

I start to explain how having babies in Mommy's tummy changed her body and DJ interrupts, "Mommy you sure have lots of lines that say you are special - I love you and you are my special Mommy - you are the best Mommy in the world. Can we go swimming now?"

I have never been prouder of those stretch marks.And, I have never been motivated more to change my eating habits and loose this baby weight. So, that I can keep up with my 3 very special kids.


The MomBabe said...

Awww! What a sweetheart!

Pregnantly Plump said...

Those are such sweet stories. I love how he drew a line on his brother to make him special. Kids minds work in the most wonderful ways.

TheVasquez3 said...

great stories, both of them.

Tara R. said...

Oh! I'm all verklempt now... lump, tearing up... what a cool kid you have!

Sniz said...

This is one of the most endearing posts I have ever read! I just got done reading it aloud to my husband. We both think it is so touching...worthy of publication!

forgetfulone said...

Those are such sweet stories! I miss my kids being so young, innocent, and sweet. you've got great kids.

Jill said...

How sweet! I love that type of story.
I must be pretty special too. I have plenty of stretch marks to prove it.

shay said...

Aw how wonderful is your little man?!

Thanks for the sweet comment you left. We woke up this morning, not to snow but to tons of rain. Hopefully we'll get a tiny break for our hunt because we have 12 kids coming and I don't want to do it in the house!

Oh and I try to get some perspective on my post baby body. Thanks for the reminder that we fought hard for these scars!

Lainey-Paney said...

what wonderful sweet stories!

Sniz said...

BTW, how the losing of those pounds so you can keep up with your kids going?

Mighty Morphin' Mama said...

I love this story! What a sweetheart to recognize how very special you are. He is a pretty wonderful child. Bless you and Happy Easter.

Jenni said...

What beautiful stories!! There is nothing more earnest than a child's mind!

OHmommy said...

Yes, so special indeed. You explained it so nicely.

Jules said...

That was a really lovely story. Thank you for sharing.