Thursday, February 14, 2008

I'd be game for that!

Soccer has always been a big part of my life. As a kid I played on a travel team and got to go all over Canada, and the USA to play in tournaments. In university I played on the varsity team and had a blast. Over the years I got to make great friends and play a game I love.

I never really imagined I would find true love on the soccer pitch.

Back in July of 2000 I was playing in my regular two summer soccer leagues. One Saturday morning a friend invited me to play soccer on her work co-ed team. They were risking a default since their girl players were unavailable. I thought it would be fun and so I accepted her offer. That one soccer game changed my life!

One of the defenders and I hit it off. So, when I was asked to play again the next week, I agreed, hoping that David would be there as well.

After a few games, it became apparent that there was a connection between the tall, blond, shy defender! My girlfriends on the team worked with him and knew he was not seeing anyone. They kept saying that they would hook us up...but never did.

So, one day, after a cold, rainy game I found the courage to ask him out.

I ran up to him on the way to the parking lot and I asked if he had a sec. Right away he commented on my play and how well I played. I blushed, then began my, now infamous, monologue:

"Thanks, well, um, I did not really want to talk about soccer actually. You see, Rue, Sherri-Lynne and Cara have been saying that we have alot in common and that we should, like, you know, get to know each other. They keep saying they will set us up, but, um, they are all talk and, well. no action. So, I guess I figured I would take matters in my own hands. So, um, keeping with the soccer theme, um, well, if you would like to get to know me off the soccer pitch, I'd be game for that!"

David looked at me. Smiled, and said, "Sure..."

And before he could say anything else, I ran off to my car. I was so excited. Too excited. I forgot to make arrangements for our first date!

We had a wonderful first date. So wonderful, that I was late to pick up my soccer friend to go to an out-of-town tournament. I was suppose to pick her up at 930PM and I did not get there till after 11PM! And then for the 90 minute drive to our lodging, I talked her ear off -reliving every second of the date.

Then, my last sentence to her was, "You know, I think he is the one."

The next day, at the out-of-town soccer tournament while I was relaxing between games, I looked up to see David walking over. I thought I was dreaming. He had driven all the way to Perth to watch me play! It was wonderful!

We have been together ever since. And each and every day I love him more.

Happy Valentine's Day everyone!


Family Adventure said...

What a cool way to meet! Thanks for sharing - hope you have a good day with your sweetie!

Heidi :)

melissious said...

Oh, love-love-LOVE it!! :) Sounds very similar to my time span! :) Mine are 4, 3, 3 & almost 2!! Have I commented on you before?? I just love your story, AND the title of your blog. I'm nearing the fringe as well... or already dove off head-first...

Tara R. said...

Very sweet story. My daughter has played soccer since she was in kindergarten (she's a college freshman now) and is currently dating a forward. Not sure if this is THE one, but she has always loved the game.

TheVasquez3 said...

awww....i loved reading that!!

i love, LOVE!

The MomBabe said...

I ♥ hearing how people met for the first time! So sweet!

Sniz said...

What a sweet story! Thanks for sharing!

Pregnantly Plump said...

What a great way to meet! And I LOVE that you had the guts to ask him out.

Jenni said...

I'm such a sucker for love stories. Happy V day.

Lainey-Paney said...

that's so wonderful & sweet!

Kathryn said...

That is a fabulous story for Valentine's Day! Wow!
Happy Valentine's Day!

krissy said...

So sweet....that's cool!!! I coached was fun!

Tot's Mom said...

You certainly made the right move to take matters into your own hands. Hope you had a great Valentine's Day.